Yo, boys and girls, spread this germs for today. It’s No Spank Day.
No parents are allow to smack, spank or hit their children for today cos it’s 30th of April - across the nation. Threatening, shouting and hitting has already an out of dated ways to discipline. Countless of us had gone through theses and had many hidden dangerous scares. Take a lot at our local newspaper, tragedy is getting younger. Why a primary school student killed by schoolmate. We have more and more violence in our society. Human is sick.
All these had to stop. Starts from babies and kids, give them loves and kindness. Reasoning and no hitting. Kids by age 3years old has the power to understand reasoning. Ask them how they feel, and why they react differ from you in utmost polite way.
Why hit them when you would deeply regret it. Smacking hurts children - and not just physically. Will hitting stop children from repeating their mistake or miss behave? The usual answer is no.
There are many ways to discipline children, and the utmost effective ways is to stood up to what you believe.
If you want you child to stop watching TV right after school. Don’t do it yourself. You could just read newspaper and do other stuff when you are at home. Kids love to mimic parents. You will find that your behaviour are similar to your parents too.
Don’t start conversation by command and order. We are not in the military force. Talk to them like friends. ( Not over-exposing your faults and problems. )
Give them plenty of love, a genuine love. Common mistake from parents when they tell their children that they love him because they are well behave, they scores AAAs in all subject. You should love them because they are your kids.
Discipline kids age below 12, can be done by giving them uneasiness. Firstly, one must assured your kids feel your love. It will be non effective if love was not felt by the kids. When kids love to fight. Make them stand at the corner after every fight. If they start to feel uneasy standing at the corner, they will stop. These can only be done if a parent comfort them every after the disciplinary act. Give them a hug and reassured them your love.
There are more ways to discipline kids without hitting. So no-hitting. Lets tell the world be acting it yourself now.
Spank Out Day was first created by a non-profit organization - The Center for Effective Discipline (CED), US.
